It is all in -the mess-.

question of the day: how long should you take to get over a relationship?

this question has been on my mind for quite some and i have never been around writing about it. The thing about it is that yes, everyone takes a different amount of time recovering. But why is there such an huge difference? Some take a couple of years, while others a few months, weeks or even days. Yes, we do have to consider the relationship, whether it was really intimate or it is just those one-off things that we have and don't bother about. But consider two people who have been in 2 identicle but separate relationships. Person A starts dating 2 years after the relationship ends, while Person B starts the next week. Amazing? I think not. People are so incredibly fickle. Call me old-fashioned, uninformed whatever but isn't there an unwritten rule that you should at least give time for the other party to cool down. Or how about what people may talk. I know we should not be bothered about what others think but could you leave with yourself, knowing others think that you are loose? Because that it is in fact the idea you are giving them!!! This is not a personal attack on anyone, mind you. I am just generalizing people of those sorts. I think it is time that you start to care about others instead of your own selfish needs because.. face it. You are not the only one on this earth and it does not evolve around you. Never did and never will.

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